I want to think a bit about conservative Christian views of sex and
gender, but before that I want to offer two stories to motivate a
crucial distinction.
Electrons and Positrons
Electrons and positrons (a positron is a positively charged
anti-particle to the electron) are very different in one way but not so
much in another. If you take some system of electrons and positrons, and
swap in a positron for an electron, the system will behave very
differently—it will be attracted to the things that the electron was
repelled by and vice versa. But if you replace all the
electrons by positrons and all the positrons by electrons, it
won’t make a significant difference (technically, there may be some
difference due to the weak force, but that’s dominated
by electromagnetic interaction). Similarly, a cloud of electrons behaves
pretty much like a cloud of positrons, but a mixed cloud of electrons
and positrons will behave very differently (electrons and
positrons will collide releasing energy).
Electrons and positrons are significantly pairwise
non-interchangeable, but globally approximately
interchangeable.
We might conclude: electrons and positrons significantly differ
relationally but do not differ much intrinsically.
On the other hand, if you have a system made of photons and
electrons, and you swap out a photon and replace it by an electron, it
will make a significant difference, but likewise typically if you swap
out all the photons and electrons, it will also make a significant
difference (unless the system was in a rare symmetric configuration).
Thus, photons and electrons are significantly pairwise and
globally interchangeable, and hence significantly differ both
relationally and intrinsically.
Heterothallic Isogamous Organisms
Isogamous sexually-reproducing organisms have equally sized gametes
among their sexes, and hence cannot be labeled as “male” and “female”
(biologists define “male” and “female” in terms of smaller and larger
gametes, respectively). Instead these sexes get arbitrarily labeled as
plus and minus (I will assume there are only two mating types for
simplicity). In heterothallic organisms, the sexes are located in
different individuals, so two are needed for reproduction. Humans are
heterothallic but not isogamous. But there are many species (mostly
unicellular, I believe) that are heterothallic and isogamous.
We can now suppose a heterothallic and isogamous species with pretty
symmetric mating roles. In such a species, again, we have significant
individual non-interchangeability in a system. If Alice is a plus and
Bob is a minus, they can reproduce, but if you swap out Bob for a plus,
you get a non-reproductive pair. But if the mating roles are
sufficiently similar, you can have global approximate
interchangeability: if in some system you put pluses for the minuses and
minuses for the pluses, things could go on much as before. A group of
pluses may behave very much like a group of minuses (namely, over time
the population will decrease to zero), but a mixed group of pluses and
minuses is apt to behave very differently. We thus have pairwise
non-interchangeability but approximate global interchangeability.
We might similarly say: pluses and minuses in our heterothallic and
isogamous species significantly differ relationally but do not differ
much intrinsically. On the other hand, cats and dogs significantly
differ both relationally and intrinsically.
The Distinction
We thus have a distinction between two kinds of differences, which we
can label as relational and intrinsic. I am not happy with the labels,
but when I use them, please think of my two examples: particles and
isogamous organisms. These two kinds of differences can be thought of as
denying different symmetries: intrinsic differences are opposed to
global interchange of the types of all individuals; relational
differences are opposed to pairwise interchange of the types of a
pair of individuals.
Conservative Christian Views of Sex and Gender
Conservative Christians tend to think that there are significant
differences between men and women. In addition to cultural traits, there
are two main theological reasons for thinking this:
Marriage asymmetry: Men and women can marry, but men cannot marry
men and women cannot marry women.
Liturgical asymmetry: Only men can serve in certain liturgical
“clerical” roles.
Of these, the marriage asymmetry is probably a bit more widely
accepted than the liturgical asymmetry. (Some also think there is an
authority asymmetry in the family where husbands have a special
authority over wives. This is even more controversial among conservative
Christians than the liturgical asymmetry, so I won’t say more about
it.)
We could suppose an arbitrary divine rule behind both asymmetries.
But this is theologically problematic: a really plausible way of reading
the difference between the Law of Moses and the Law of the Gospel is at
that in the Law of the Gospel, we no longer have arbitrary rules whose
primary benefit is obedience, such as the prohibition on eating
pork.
If we are to avoid supposing an arbitrary divine rule, we need to
suppose differences between men and women to explain the theologically
grounded asymmetries. And this is apt to lead conservative Christians to
philosophical and theological theorizing about normative differences
such as women being called more to “receptivity” and men more to
“givingness”, or searching through sociological, psychological and
biological data for relevant differences between the behavior and
abilities of men and women. The empirical differences tend to lie on
continua with wide areas of overlap between the sexes, however, and the
normative differences are either implausible or likewise involve
continua with wide areas of overlap (men, too, are called to
receptivity).
But I think we are now in a position to see that there is a logical
shortcoming behind the focus of this search. For differences between men
and women can be relational or intrinsic, and the search has tended to
focus on the intrinsic.
However, I submit, purely relational differences are sufficient to
explain both the marriage and liturgical asymmetries. One way to see
this is to pretend that we are a heterothallic isogamous species (rather
than heterothallic anisogamous species that we actually are), consisting
of pluses and minuses rather than females and males.
Then, if marriage has an ordering to procreation, that would neatly
explain why pluses and minuses can marry each other, but pluses can’t
marry pluses and minuses can’t marry minuses. No intrinsic
difference between pluses and minuses is needed to explain this. Thus,
as soon as we accept that marriage has an ordering to procreation, we
have a way to explain the marriage asymmetry without any supposition of
intrinsic differences.
Likewise, if there is going to be an incarnation, and only one, and
the incarnate God is going to be incarnate as a typical organism of our
species, then this incarnation must happen as a plus or a minus. And if
married love is a deep and passionate love that is a wonderful symbol
for the love between God and God’s people, then if the incarnation is as
an individual of one of the sexes, God’s Church would then symbolically
have the opposite sex. And then those whose liturgical role it is to
stand in for the incarnate God in the marriage-like relationship to the
Church would most fittingly have the sex opposite to that of the Church.
Thus, if the incarnate God is incarnate as a plus, the Church would be
figured as a minus, one can explain why it is fitting that the clergy in
the relevant liturgical roles would be pluses; if the incarnate God is
incarnate as a minus, we have an explanation of why the clergy in these
roles would be minuses as well. (Interestingly, on this story, it’s not
that the clergy are directly supposed to be like the incarnate
God in respect of sex, but that their sex is supposed to be the opposite
to that of the Church, and given that in the species there are only two
sexes, this forces them to have the same sex as the incarnate God: the
clergy need to have a sex opposed to the sex opposed to that of the
incarnate God.)
Now, we are not isogamous, and we have female and male, not plus and
minus. But we can still give exactly the same explanations. Even though
in an anisogamous species there are significant intrinsic
biological differences between the sexes, we need not advert to any of
them to explain either the marriage or the liturgical asymmetry. The
marriage asymmetry is tied to the pairwise non-interchangeability of the
sexes and explained by the procreative role of marriage. The liturgical
asymemtry is tied to the marriage asymmetry together with the
symmetry-breaking event of God becoming incarnate in one of the
sexes.
As far as this story goes, there need not be any morally
significant intrinsic differences between male and female to explain the
marital and liturgical asymmetries. The relational difference, that you
need male and female for a mating pair, is morally significant
on this story, but in a way that is entirely symmetric between male and
female. And then we have one symmetry-breaking event: God becomes
incarnate as a male. We need not think that there is any special reason
why God becomes incarnate as a male or a female—it could equally well
have been as a female. The decision whether to become incarnate as a
male or a female could be as arbitrary as the decision about the exact
eye color of the incarnate God (though, of course, eye color does not
ground either significant intrinsic or significant relational
differences). But if it were an incarnation as a female, other changes
would be fitting: the clergy who symbolize the nuptial role of the
incarnate God would fitting be female, in the exodus story it would
fitting be female lambs and goats that would be sacrificed, and it would
be fitting that Sarah be asked to sacrifice her first-born daughter.
I am not saying that there are no morally significant intrinsic
differences between male and female. There may be. We are, after all,
not only heterothallic but also anisogamous, and so there could turn out
to be such intrinsic differences. But we need not suppose any such to
explain the two asymmetries, and it is safer to be agnostic on the
existence of these intrinsic differences.
Nothing in this post is meant as an argument for either the
marriage asymmetry and the liturgical asymmetry. I have argued for the
marriage asymmetry elsewhere,
but here I am just saying that it could be explained
if we grant the procreative ordering of marriage. And my
arguments for the liturgical asymmetry are based on fittingness. But
fittingness considerations do not constrain God. While we can explain
why the clergy are of the same sex as the incarnate God by the nuptial
imagery story that I gave above, God could instead have chosen to make
the clergy be of the opposite sex as the incarnate God, in order to
nuptially signify the people with the clergy, or God could
chosen to make the clergy be of both sexes, to emphasize the fact that
salvation is tied to the humanity (see St. Athanasius on this) and not
the sex of the incarnate God. But when many things are fitting, God can
choose one, and we can then cite its fittingness as a non-deterministic
explanation.
Though, I suppose, I have at least refuted this argument:
The only way to explain the marriage and liturgical asymmetries
is by supposing morally significant intrinsic differences between female
and male.
There are no such intrinsic differences.
So, probably, the asymmetries don’t exist either.
I have refuted it by showing that (3) is false.